I have read so many books, watched so many speakers that rave about the law of attraction, manifesting your reality and living the life you really want, need and desire. My own personal life experiences with the law of attraction are off and on, I truly believe that the only times I flourished within that program was when I felt that I truly deserved it, demanded it for myself and I most definitely pushed myself out of my comfort zone. 

The many times I fell short of manifesting what I truly desired was when I was in victim role, denial or in a very bad head space, comparable to victim role or also referred to as victim mentality.

When I separated from my husband I was in the worst mental place I had ever been in my entire life. I was holding on so tight to the victim role and I was unable to push past my comfort zone. I felt tired, mistreated and underappreciated. I came across a book that changed everything for me. This book was called “The Love Code” by Alexander Loyd and that was the beginning of me improving my life, changing my thought process, coming out of the victim role and learning all about the subconscious mind and programming.

Needless to say my life improved, I regained control of myself, my reality and even massively improved my self-worth. This was just the beginning for me. I later on discovered other amazing authors and teachers like Joe Dispenza and Bruce Lipton. 

I still have internal work and reprograms to do, but at least now I have the right tools that can help me change my subconscious mind, reprogramming the negative programs and get me back into control of my own life. I wish this for everyone and ask that if you are ever in a negative place you take charge of your internal world and you take your power back.